Showing posts with label Point to Ponder. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Point to Ponder. Show all posts

Friday, May 31, 2013

Please Do Not Forget the Wheel Chairs

Every other day we hear of bomb blasts and news of soldiers and personnel of LEA getting wounded or even succumbing to these acts of terrorism, extremism and religious intolerance - and the war on terror.  Those who lay down their lives leave a life long lamenting for their near and dear ones. But what about those unheard and uncounted injured who fade away in the four walls of their homes for the rest of their lives carrying the scars of these deadly acts - perhaps we have never pondered over it seriously ever.

Today, I went to the Armed Forces Institute of Rehabilitation Medicine (AFIRM) in Rawalpindi today and offered a unique Friday prayer of my life.

The mosque inside the AFIRM was spacious and air conditioned and when I entered the mosque, a notice caught my attention






And I could see patients being wheeled into the specific ablution  area - in quite a number. These were some of those lucky ones who though escaped death, but became slave to the wheel chairs for the rest of their lives.

By the time the prayers started, three complete rows of patients on wheel chairs had lined up at the end of those sitting on prayer mats to offer their prayers - and perhaps thank the Almighty for giving them their lives - though at the cost of their limbs.

I glanced at some of these and found many who lost two more more of their limbs. After the prayers, they were wheeled out by their attendants and I just stood there watch each one - one of them was being wheeled out by a small boy, perhaps the son of the patient who had both his right hand and leg missing. Both the father and son were laughing on something - but I could see the sadness that filled the face of the patient - a soldier whose comrades may have martyred in the incident that rendered him crippled for life. I stepped forward and saluted the soldier with tears in my eyes and shook hand with him - though his left as he did not have his right hand from shoulder below. I could not say anything - but I know he knew what I wanted to say to him silently.

Everyday, soldiers and officers, mostly in their young age, get added up unknown to us whose life becomes a bane for as long as they live. While those who get injured in the bomb blasts have this misfortune descended upon them unannounced,  but for these brave soldiers who walk into the death traps knowing fully well the consequences is real heroism.

No one seem to care - except of course the Army by providing them the state of the art rehabilitation facilities. I see politicians fighting for their seats and ministries but not ever uttering a word about these crippled soldiers - I do not find them visiting these soldiers whether in their homes or in hospitals to comfort them. Those who do, go their with media to have them photographed to show 'solidarity' with these soldiers - but never alone to shake hand and salute them for their sacrifices for a country where they fight over each other for their political gains and securing ministries.

I salute all such unsung heroes and hope my readers too will remember these brave sons of soil now restricted to wheel chairs for life for sacrificing their limbs so that we could live in peace.

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Friday, May 25, 2012

What would you do: Worry about your Car or Help the other driver out?

Driving own vehicle is always very easy as one is in controls. But what if due to other's error, you find a huge truck rolling to its side and come crashing towards your car and even bump into you. If you are lucky to survive the unexpected onslaught, what would you do:

  • Get out of your car - inspect the damage to the car and curse the other driver who did it?
  • Or get out of your car, go to the the other vehicle and help take out the stranded driver
  • Lose control of yourself and start crying or start yelling at the stranded driver who ruined your car
  • I don't know what would I do.

OK - now watch the video below and decide what the car driver should have done:


What would you have done?

Friday, May 11, 2012

With much love, Mom and Dad

Life has many ups and downs - but for those who have crossed over to most of their years in the world, there is a different life ahead. Something very strange, unbelievable and astonishing - as suddenly those who have been darling of their eyes find no time to for their parents getting old, tired and helpless.

The desperation of being left alone is haunting and awesome - every parent has to bear this solitary confinement some point in time in their life. No matter how many children one has, suddenly there is no one to listen, sit or even share a moment because life is getting so fast that even to spare a moment is tantamount to  lose the race for the top or keeping ahead of one's contemporaries.


If you have your parents aging and growing wrinkles on their faces, watch the video below before you do what most of us do to our parents:


With much love, Mom and Dad!!

Video courtesy: YouTube / Cealager


Friday, March 16, 2012

The Joy of Giving

A friend sent me the following excerpt from the book Zaviya by famous writer and philosopher Ashfaque Ahmed and I thought I must share it with my viewers for it contains something that only few can understand.
Asfaque Ahmed and his book 'Zaviya'
For those who cannot understand Urdu, a translation is given after the Urdu text.

مجھے یاد ہے ایک دفعہ میرے مرشد سائیں فضل شاہ صاحب گوجرانوالہ گئے ، میں بھی ان کے ساتھ تھا - ہم جب پورا دن گوجرانوالہ میں گزار کر   واپس آ رہےتھے تو بازار میں ایک فقیر ملا ، اس نے بابا جی سے کہا کچھ دے الله کے نام پر - 
انھوں نے اس وقت ایک روپیہ بڑی دیر کی بات ہے ، ایک روپیہ بہت ہوتا تھا - وہ اس کو دیا وہ لے کر بڑا خوش ہوا ، دعائیں دیں ، اور بہت پسند کیا بابا جی کو - 

بابا جی نے فقیر سے پوچھا شام ہو گئی ہے کتنی کمائی ہوئی ؟ فقیر ایک سچا آدمی تھا اس نے کہا ١٠ روپے بنا لیے ہیں تو دس روپے بڑے ہوتے تھے -
تو بابا جی نے فقیر سے کہا تو نے اتنے پیسے بنا لیے ہیں تو اپنے دیتے میں سے کچھ دے - تو اس نے کہا بابا میں فقیر آدمی ہوں میں کہاں سے دوں -
انھوں نے کہا ، اس میں فقیر امیر کا کوئی سوال نہیں جس کے پاس ہے اس کو دینا چاہیے تو اس فقیر کے دل کو یہ بات لگی -
کہنے لگا اچھا - وہاں دو مزدور کدالیں کندھے پر ڈالے گھر واپس جا رہے تھے - تو وہ فقیر بھاگا گیا ، اس نے چار روپے کی جلیبیاں خریدیں ، چار روپے کی ایک کلو جلیبیاں آیا کرتی تھیں -
اور بھاگ کے لایا ، اور آکر اس نے ان دو مزدوروں کو دے دیں - کہنے لگا ، لو ادھی ادھی کر لینا - وہ بڑے حیران ہوئےمیں بھی کھڑا ان کو دیکھتا رہا تو مزدور جلیبیاں لے کے خوش ہوئے اور دعائیں دیتے چلے گئے - بڑی مہربانی بابا تیری ، بڑی مہربانی -

تو وہ جو فقیر تھا کچھ کھسیانا ، کچھ شرمندہ سا تھا ، زندگی میں پہلی مرتبہ اس نے خیرات دی تھی - وہ تو لینے والے مقام پر تھا تو شرمندہ سا ہو کر کھسکا -
تو میرے بابا جی نے کہا، " اوئے لکیا کدھر جانا ایں تینوں فقیر توں داتا بنا دیتا اے ، خوش ہو نچ کے وکھا - "
تو فقیر سے جب داتا بنتا ہے نا، تواس کا رتبہ بلند ہو جاتا ہے ، تو باہر نہیں تو اس کا اندر ضرور ناچنے لگتا ہے

از اشفاق احمد زاویہ بابا جناح صفحہ ٢٢٢
 

English Translation: 
Before I give the translation, let me say a few words about the writer. Ashfaque Ahmed is a famous Urdu language writer, thinker and philosophizer. While he mainly concentrated on the issue related to the wrongdoings by the rich and famous and those in power, in the later stage of life, he started to write something for improvement of the morality of the people who read him by narrating small incidents from our life, which we otherwise ignore to be non issues or meaningless.

Now coming to the excerpt above. AS narrated by Ashfaque Ahmed, one day he was going with one of his elders and mentor, whom he often referred to as 'Baba Jee" - an honourable address to an old and learned. They came across a beggar who asked them for the alms. The Baba Jee gave him One Rupee (in those days which are quoted in the excerpt, one rupee was a lot of money). Quite naturally the beggar was flabergasted and was overjoyed and prayed for the Baba Jee.

The Baba Jee asked the begger as to how much he had earned that day, to which the beggar replied ten rupees. Baba Jee asked him that since he had made lot of money, why did not he also 'give' form what he had 'earned' to someone else who was more needy. The beggar was surprised to listen to this and remarked that he himself was a beggar, so could he give something to someone else. Baba Jee replied, "It is not the question of being a beggar - anyone who as something, must give out a part to someone else." 

The beggar thought for a while, then went to a nearby vendor who making some hot snacks for the poor and the passer byes. The beggar bough some for a few rupees for his day's earning and then gave these to a few poor labourers walking by. Quite naturally the labourers were overjoyed of this unexpected 'treat' and thanked the 'beggar turned giver'.

Baba Jee then told the beggar that that day he had made him, the beggar, a giver from a simple beggar. And that when one gives, his status is automatically elevated to that of a giver from just being an ordinary.



I leave the rest for the readers to conclude and draw inferences from this simple narration of a small incidence which can turn our lives to an extent that we can not even imagine. And if we give from what we have to those who are less fortunate than us, no matter how poor we ourselves may be, the joy of giving would refresh our souls and makes us inner self dance with joy, happiness and achievement. 

Do give someone next time you come across who needs more what is in your wallet - it will change your life forever.

Related: Ashfaque Ahmed (Pakistanpaedia)
PS: A similar anecdote can be read in the post on Ashfaque Ahmed, for which the link is given above. I would write the translation of that excerpt some other day.

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Saturday, May 21, 2011

At this very moment ….

Ever wondered that every second and every moment has a new dimension to life – our lives? While we enjoy a TV show or relax in our air conditioned home, there are many things that are happening around us that we don’t care to know or don’t want to be part of it, unless of course we become part of this moment ourselves.

While sitting aimlessly on my desktop, I just wondered what could be happening at this time that matters to many, and unknowingly to me too if I really cared. Here are some of my thoughts that wandered and jotted these down to share.

At this very moment:

  1. A new baby is born, who would know know why he came into this world and why he would one day go away.
  2. Many babies around the world may be standing on their feet for the first time, bringing that heavenly smile on the faces of their parents.
  3. Many like me finally putting on their joggers to go out on the jogging track to make an arduous beginning of shedding away pounds of extra flesh we have gained by not doing so earlier. By the way I really put on my joggers today.
  4. Someone is thanking a friend for helping him out of his long debt.
  5. Someone is taking on his pen for the first time to write his first post, that may one day become a masterpiece of literature.
  6. Someone is praying with tears rolling down for the forgiveness of sins he committed all along his life and hurt many a people in the process.
  7. A team of doctors is gathered around an operation table to save the life of a person who was run down by a run-away reckless car driver.
  8. Young children are smiling, completely oblivious of the dangers haunting the humanity or criminals standing by the next dark corner of the alley.
  9. A class-1 student is trying hard to solve a difficult question; the same child that one day may become the president of his country.
  10. Many honest people still working hard to safeguard our interests, despite being meagerly paid and have no money to pay for the school fee of their own children or buy a onetime enough meal for their families.
  11. Farmers waiting for the rain for the harvest that they sowed.
  12. Many volunteers are helping out displaced or calamity hit people without the lust of any reward and award.
  13. Many people holding hands in love and beginning a new life for them.
  14. Someone just paid more than the bill to a vendor selling cheap snacks to quietly help him out.
  15. Many couples around the world celebrating their first, 25th, 50th or even 75 wedding anniversaries.
  16. Many people are closing their eyes for journey to their final abode, leaving their heirs behind to fight over even as paltry amount as pennies.
  17. Someone sincerely forgiving someone who wronged him that harmed him all along his whole life.
  18. Someone extending a hand of friendship, while the other retracting his for still not forgiving age old enmity.
  19. Someone getting his first ever appointment letter after many rejections and failures.
  20. Soldiers marching on into their death knowing full well, only to ensure that others like I sitting here peacefully in my home, writing down these wandering thoughts, continue to live in peace.
Tag: | Point to Ponder | Life |

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Its time to redraw our national strategy

A few days ago I read a past in the local English daily lambasting the military strategy of Pakistan after the Abbottabad adventure by the Americans. Suddenly it seems that the defence forces of the country are the most unlikable entities and everyone is out here criticizing the defence forces for the Abbottabad fiasco. The writer of the post vehemently demanded rehashing of our military strategy.

No one in the present times would disagree with the notion as the Abbottabad episode has really lowered the morale of the entire nation and feel that the slogans of impregnability have been torn apart and disgracefully shattered.  Yes this happens in countries where no one is very sure what our overall national strategy is, since military strategy flows from the national strategy. Unless the national strategy is clearly defined and spelt out, a clear cut military strategy cannot be drawn.

Our present military strategy of siding with friendly Taliban and fighting the non-friendly Taliban has been now questioned – a policy that astounds many including the Americans. This confusion has arisen due to the absence of a clearly drawn national policy which should harness any misadventure from the military. Likewise Pakistan’s support to people of Kashmir has provoked for a tit-for-tat reaction by India in supporting the separatist movement in Balochistan. Today, no Punjabi speaking is safe in Balochistan. Even the sanctity of the national flag is at stake and the writ of the GOP in many parts of the province is questionable.

We do not have any friends left in the world. Our continuous tilt towards the USA has given us nothing except “do more” rhetoric, making us take decisions that are extremely dangerous and not at all friendly to our future. All that we have done so far in the name of War on Terror has back fired and we have suffered more than anyone else in the world. Our sacrifices have brought no fruit of respite and the latest US attack deep inside Pakistan exposes our vulnerabilities despite supporting the US for almost a decade on its version of War on Terror. The people in general feel that our policy on this erred war has been flawed all along and is only to please and suit the interests of the US rather than that of our own. The aid that has flown in for the last ten years has been mostly the military equipment that was needed by the US to support it in its war in Afghanistan. The apparent billions of dollars that poured in have had no effect on improvement of the fragile economy of Pakistan, which is dwindling every day that passes. And despite doing much more than enough, we are still questioned for not doing more. When the CIA and the US failed to find the Weapons of Mass Destruction (WMD) in Iraq, a pretext on which Iraq was invaded, the US never apologized to anyone or even to people of Iraq whose peaceful country has been destroyed by the US in the process. This has been one of the biggest intelligence failures of the elite intelligence agency of the world. But when Pakistan’s intelligence failed to locate OBL, we are being grilled and questioned for our inefficiency and failures.

On the economic front, we are in an abysmal state. Despite being a nuclear power, the country is plunged into darkness most part of the year due to non availability of electricity. India, on the other hand despite being many times bigger than us both in land mass and populations has no load shedding and has even excess electricity and is willing to give us on much cheaper rates. Our economic chaos is adding up every day. While poor are heavily taxed, the rich, specially the feudal and big land owners take away their income to foreign lands tax free. Tax collection mechanism is also completely inefficient and allows the taxable to go escort free. On the education and health side, our performance is hardly satisfactory. 55% of primary school age girls are not in school; the average Pakistani adult has 3.9 years of schooling; at 1.8% of GDP, Pakistan ranks 127 out of 132 countries worldwide in educational expenditure (spending 4.1% of GDP, India ranks 82nd); there are only 5 years of compulsory education — and many children get less; less than half the total population can meet a minimal literacy test (compared to 59% in India). The corruption at the top has permeated throughout the country. Business often depends on government for licenses or special treatment. Politics and connections affect the ability of NGO groups to raise money and take a toll on the integrity of universities and other institutions.

Why is it so? Well one of the glaring reason is the inability of our politicians to understand the dynamics of shaping the national strategy and the resultant military strategy. The armed forces should not draw a policy or a strategy of their own which does not support the aspirations of the people of the country. Except for a few members of the parliament, a majority is unaware of how to shape our national policy. This is quite evident from the participation in debate on the issue whenever such critical and important issues are discussed in the parliament. 

Even during the post budget discussions, a large majority of the members remain indifferent to the snags in the budget and finally the budget is passed with “over whelming” majority within a couple of days. Such is our economic chaos that is taking the country to disaster every day. And mind you budget is one of the most important parts of the economic well being of the country. 
Now if people in general and members of the upper and lower houses in particular do not understand the dynamics of economic strategies, fiscal policies and military strategy, how can they formulate a well drawn national strategy from which all other strategies take root?

Our misalignment and ill conceived foreign policy is also the result of the same. It seems every department and strategic organization of the country is working out its own course of action due to the vacuum that exists at the national level to come up with a unified approach. The PM’s address on Abbottabad fiasco tells nothing and is full of rhetoric that makes the ordinary citizen wonder at our political wisdom and consciousness of the dangers we are getting into.

We are too fond of saying “time has come to take corrective measures..”, but how many times this time has come in our political history of the country. I also want to say the same, but would it make any difference? Our political leaders are engrossed in their own political rivalries, blaming each other for the collective ills. Let sanity should prevail at least for now when our national integrity has been seriously jolted. If this can happen once, it can happen again. And if does, what answer our political and military leadership will have then?

And before I finish, I must confess that more than any one else, it is we who have damaged this country because of our vested interests. all successive governments have concentrated on every means to continue to cling to the seat of the government and has adopted all means to do so. This has harmed us more than anything else. The country has been looted and plundered by none other than those who rule this country and showed no love and respect for the aspirations of the people of the country. The real issues that confront the country have been marginalized or side lined to distract the country and the people.

And like Nero who played the flute while the Rome burnt, members of a political party that had joined the government were taking oath on 2nd of May, adding salt to the wounds of the nation which has had only hours before subjected to a deadly foreign excursion. This is how our leaders and rulers view the Abbottabad episode, which amply proves our apathy towards core national issues and our response.

Instead of wasting time on dead issues like Bhutto’s conviction, let us concentrate on much more important issues like framing of our future course of action before we are hit back once more with much more severe and dangerous consequences, that would hurt all of us more than ever before. We need to draw a long term National Strategy based on the aspirations of the people of Pakistan and the realities of the region we live in, rather than redefining it every other day to suit the wishes and dictates of someone who has never been our friend in real terms.

Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the one's we have been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.



Originally posted at Fire Within

Monday, April 4, 2011

The Japanese really believe in God more than anyone else


The earthquake that hit Japan recently followed by waves of tsunami has left people of the world pondering over the resilience, perseverance, determination and faith of the Japanese people. There were no scenes of lamenting and chest beating seen anywhere after the disaster hit. Although people had tears for the near and dear ones that perished, but no one lamented and cursed God for the disaster. That is something that makes all of us wonder whether the Japanese really believe in God more than us?

Look at us (I mean everyone around the globe) when a tragedy hits us. We lament, beat our chests and cry out loud to ask God why us!! But here they stood, strong, unnerved and determined to take stock of the situation rather than making hue and cry.  Unlike many advanced countries of the world who champion themselves as model for other, these poor fragile people showed strength of character and moral fiber.  There were no reported incidents of looting, rather people joined hands together to help carry their salvaged luggage to safer places. I remember a TV footage long ago when there was one hour electricity failure in New York, and people of this “great city” looted stores and raped women. But in total contrast, there prevailed a unique calm and order, as if everyone knew what to do when a disaster hits.

There have been many reported incidents when super store owners, asked people to take everything for free. And when the stores ran out of supplies, people who had surplus brought back to stores to share with those still in need.

Then there is a tale of a man who took out his boat against the tsunami, braved the formidable walls of roaring water and rode over many tsunami waves. He knew the danger that was coming, the risks he was taking, but he put his own in danger in the hope that by saving his boat, he will be able to come back and help his fellow citizens much more than if he had simply ran like other to higher ground to save his own soul. After reaching the clear seas, he then came back and since then he has been transporting people free of cost. Some who have money give him a paltry sum for his fuel costs.

Despite the damage and the loss, people showed dignity and calm. The stayed in lines to get water and other aid goods. No one was seen rushing, jumping over the relief trucks and snatching relief goods. At no place there was chaos or rushing over. Rather some people gave way for other to get aid first than them. People showed grace and got only what they needed and did not insist on more than their needs.

In many cases, when electricity went out in stores, people put the things back on the racks and left the stores and waited outside, rather than taking things away under the blanket of darkness and slipping away without paying.

And above all, there was no media hype, no exaggerated reports or no labeling by any media of “having reached the area first” or “reporting before others.” The media behaved responsibly and it felt as if they were too helping the government in their efforts to reach out to people and help, rather than scoring point.

This reminded me of many incidents of breaking lines, taking things forcibly and denying the same for other affected people standing by, when disaster hit our country not very long ago. People stopped aid trucks from going further to affected people further ahead and took away everything the trucks carried. This denied people further away of any relief goods for days. This also reminds me of the role of media which lamented more than people and only reported negatively to undermine the efforts of the government and aid workers. The lady news reporters roamed in the area wearing creased colourful clothes with visible make up as if reporting a fashion show. And the VIPs visited, though days after, with clean creased clothes and distributing money mere show offs rather than showing any semblance of real grief and pain.

And before I forget, did anyone see buildings falling after almost 9 magnitude earthquake and many aftershocks there after? Perhaps none as the earthquake proof buildings really stood ground and spoke volumes of the ability and the honesty of the people who built these multistoried buildings. And that is the reason that the death toll was very minimal and whatever happened was because of tsunami and not because of falling buildings and debris. We vividly remember crumbling of our infrastructure, rather a total devastation of buildings in our earthquake of 2005. Even the posh and expensive Margalla Towers crumbled.

All this really makes me wonder and ponder whether we really believe in God more than Japanese? I am afraid it seems the other way round. 

Sunday, November 28, 2010

The Bear Hug

A few days back, a photograph showing a chained bear hugging a child of the bear owner appeared in a leading newspaper with the caption “Bear Hug.” The picture immediately attracted my attention as the practice of using bears to fight with dogs and other unbecoming practices by the bear beaters to earn money is going on for years despite the efforts of the World Society for the Protection of Animals (WSPA) to protect these animals from suffering and barbaric treatment.

I immediately wrote to the newspaper editor, drawing their attention to their correspondent’s mindset that had shot the scene for amusement of others rather than projecting the harm and cruelty done to the animals. Obviously the letter was not printed in the newspaper.

Those who care for these poor animals may have read about the ravaging of the Kund Park Bear sanctuary in the Khyber Pakhtunkwa province during the last floods, in which of the 23 rescued bears from the bear beaters, only three could be rescued, while the 20 unlucky perished in the muddy waters of the floods. The sanctuary is so badly devastated that it would take a long time for its reestablishment. The surviving bears have now been accommodated in another sanctuary located at Balkasar.

It is time now that we say no to such feats and display of animals being used to earn money. The wild animals have to undergo a torturous training to tame their wildness and pacify their animal instincts so that these can be used and tortured again for their display in public. One of the most cruel things done to these bears is that they are tied to a pole and made to “fight” with the dogs who are lose. How can a chained bear fight with a loose dog? I am sure if the bear was also loose; he wouldn’t let the dog last long.

If you find a chained bear being used for earning money, please notify the nearest office of the World Society for the Protection of Animals, so that these could be rescued and placed in the sanctuaries for protection in environment close to their natural habitat.


The post originally published at: The Fire Within

Sunday, October 31, 2010

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Blog Action Day 2010 - WATER

Have you ever wondered that while you can buy bottled safe drinking water from the market, more than one billion people around the world cannot afford this luxury of clean drinking water? Join countless bloggers around the world to participate in the Blog Action Day to raise awareness about the clean and safe drinking water for those who cannot afford it or don’t have access to it. Remember access to clean water is not just a human rights issue – it is an environmental, animal welfare, and sustainability issue. Water is a global issue, and affects all of us.
Blog Action Day is an annual event held every October 15 that unites the world’s bloggers in posting about the same issue on the same day with the aim of sparking a global discussion and driving collective action. So be part of the fifth Blog action Day 2010 which is dedicated to the accessibility to clean drinking water. The theme was chosen by vote on Change.org’s blog, with Collis and Cyan Ta’eed as its co-creators.
Those who haven’t heard of the Blog Action Day, may I add for their information that it is all about grass root level activism, based on the philosophy that ordinary people can make an extraordinary difference. Join the cause and celebrate the day with your own post at your own blog, as I have.


Photo courtesy: Diets in Review.com

Friday, September 24, 2010

Dr Afia’s Sentence – a case of (false) Pride and Prejudice

Yesterday an American court sentenced 86 years to a 38 years old neuroscientist Dr Afia Siddiqui on charges of “attempted murder”, which was committed in Afghanistan years ago. No one in the world gets 86 years for attempting to kill a person. Even the drama of “killing” the US soldier seems fabricated and seems to have planned only to indict the female doctor to settle some other scores.

I would not go into the details of the attempted murder allegations. But would only say that no terrorist roams around in a city, infested with American soldiers and agents keeping an eye on every one, with a handbag containing maps of “sensitive places.” And when caught in the town of Ghazni, and taken to a police station, she picks up a rifle “innocently left by a marine” in the room where she was detained and opened fire on a US soldier and FBI agent. “Luckily” the Americans escaped the fire, but Dr Afia got injured instead by the fire they opened on her. Despite the fact that her finger prints were not found on the rifle she allegedly grabbed, she gets 86 years from the court of country always advocating upholding of justice. It seems as the verdict was just a ceremonious formality and the sentence had already been readied to be announced even if she was found not guilty.

Have a closer look at the photo of Dr Afia, as it appeared in the newspapers around the world, which speaks of a women fatigued, tired and seemingly tortured. One only pities those who had detained her and found a fragile woman to torture to “get the truth.” And when nothing could be proved, she was sentenced to rot and be humiliated in some dungeon like cell of a prison all of her life.

After yesterday’s verdict the judicial system of the USA has suffered a huge loss on moral, legal and logic planes. And if someone attempting a murder gets 86 years, what about those presidents and prime ministers who lied to the entire world that Iraq had amassed WMDs and an invasion by allies was essential to destroy those WMDs before the same destroyed the world? And in the process killed countless Iraqis, besides devastating a developed country and turning into a heap of rubbles. Shouldn’t they be held accountable for their deeds by this “supreme” law?

I abhor terrorism of any kind, whether by the so-called Al Qaeda or the social terrorism as committed yesterday in the USA. The verdict shows the false pride of a nation that is highly prejudiced and unjust. The verdict is a mockery of the slogans of Liberty, Justice and Freedom.

Weep, free world weep. One of your daughters has succumbed to the pride of nation and its prejudices.

Who was that virtuous man?

Yesterday, my friend Hamid Haroon sent me an SMS which was both awesome and soul shaking. It is about the funeral prayer of one of the most pious spiritual personalities of his times – Khwaja Bakhtair Kaki. When the saint died, a large number of devotees and saints came from all over the then Indian subcontinent to pay homage to the man who was revered both by his friends/followers and even those who differed from him on his religious interpretations and beliefs. It seemed as if the entire world has gathered to attend the funeral of this great saint. Just before the burial, his will was read which explained as to who should lead his funeral prayers. The will was both strange and demanding and when it was read, the entire gathering of thousands put down their faces with shame and utter despair.

The will read, “Let my funeral prayers be led by a person who fulfills four conditions: A person who has never skipped any of his obligatory prayers. He who has never left the four sunnahs before the Asr prayer. A person who has never left the Tahajjad, the late night voluntary prayers. And last of all, the one who had never eyed a nah-mehram (a woman one can marry) woman after reaching puberty.”

This extraordinary will fell as bombshell and the entire gathering fell silent as there was none who could fulfill all these four preconditions. Even the most pious of the pious present found it impossible to declare the fulfillment of these four preconditions. It looked as if the funeral prayers would never be led, a shame for the entire community. The entire day went by and there was no one to come forward. Everyone looked with the corners of one’s eyes to see if there was someone. But seemingly there was no one.

Then after the Asr prayers (the third prayer of the day offered in the afternoon), there rose a man and started walking slowly towards the head of the funeral congregation. Everyone was stunned to see that man as almost all knew him very well. The man with his head bowed down extremely low as if the best of his well kept secret has been exposed. He had tears rolling down from his eyes, which had drenched his shirt. I t looked as he had been weeping since the time the will was read as he perhaps knew that his secret will be exposed which no one knew before that day.

The man led the funeral prayers and after he finished, he said with a broken voice and tears still falling from his eyes, “This pious man has on this day of his death has disclosed others secrets and piety.”

Do you know who was that that man. He was none other than Shamsuddin Altamash – the then ruler of India.

The anecdote has left me without any words. If today we try to correlate the same will, perhaps there will be no one like King Altamash. Even leaving aside one’s religious obligations and responsibilities, if we try finding a man to lead us with any of the following pre-conditions, we will be utterly dismayed:

1. A man who had never evaded the taxes due to him.

2. One who had never misused his authority for his personal gains.

3. A man who has never usurped others rights or taken advantage of.

4. The one who has never taken a penny more than due to him in lieu of his services.

5. Someone who has never betrayed his electorate of the promises he made before being elected for a public office.

6. A man of honour who had never lied in his life.

7. And …..

The listing reminds me of the famous poem, God give us men a time like this demands and I find no one stepping forward.

Sunday, September 19, 2010

Save Earth – at Your End

Efforts are well underway all over the world to save earth from the green house effect. Everyone is talking and attending conferences – world leaders are making pledges to reduce the heat by capping the outflow of harmful gases. But by and large, the large segment of the society is unaware of their obligations in reducing the heat they are unnecessarily generating or adding substances that argument to piling up of the hazardous gases. So isn’t it time for us – the ordinary people to do small things at home, which can add up in a collective effort to be really meaningful at community, country and the world over.

Here are some “small steps’ that can turn into “one big leap” for the rest of the people, humanity and the future generations:
  • Waste less water everyday and drink TAP water instead of bottled water (which is being consumed in huge quantity these days) as the wasted away bottles add to pollution. When washing or taking a bath, try cold or lukewarm water rather than hot water, for which your geyser would burn longer, consuming more gas and emitting more heat into the environment.
  • Walk when you can instead of going short distance in your car. A research says that keeping one car off road two days a week can reduce greenhouse gas emissions by an average of 1,590 pounds per year. So for picking up a few grocery items, jog up to the nearest store (or even stroll down) – it will do good to your health too.
  • When going shopping, pick up those products with least packaging as packaging when wasted (and if not recyclable) would be harmful.
  • Use energy saver bulbs that last much longer than a standard bulb and use at least two-third less energy.
  • Make your homes more energy efficient by using solar geysers and lights rather than burning gas. Put your geyser thermostat at pilot or at Low so that the entire night geyser doesn’t run like a bull for no useful requirement when you are asleep.
  • Turn off lights when not required as heat emitted from the unwanted bulbs adds up to raise the temperature all over the world.
  • A few words about driving. Ensure your car tyres are inflated properly. Under inflated tyres decrease fuel economy by 3-5%, which means more pollution. Likewise drive at a constant 90-100 kmph (around 60mph) as any higher acceleration will consume extra fuel and extra burning, more heat release in the atmosphere.
  • And one last thing, use less sprays of all kinds, specially those that emit CFC (chlorofluorocarbon), for these are deadly in depleting the ozone layer. Next time you go shopping, beware of sprays made of CFC.
So you see, with such a small effort, we can actually make a lot of difference in reducing the temperature that will add to our efforts to save earth.

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Can One Wait?

I recently came across a small but very meaningful and eye opening anecdote. A teacher asked her class, "Who can tell me how much money the great Rockefeller left behind him?" The children made wild guesses; Ten million? Fifty million? One billion dollars perhaps? After all, they were talking about the fortunes of one of the world's richest men! Only one child had a different answer to give, "Rockefeller left every penny behind!"

And how very true. We amass bank balances, make vast properties, but seldom have time to spend it. We just want to be rich – tagged as the richest man in the world. We don’t want to ease up the sufferings of so many needy around us by sharing a part of our possessions. And one day our demise hits the newspapers and then by and by we fade away in the history. No more the wealthiest man of the world. And those we leave behind, are more worried about how much we left and how to grab the cache rather than remembering the one who left it.

Remember what did the when the famous warrior Alexander, the Great of Macedonia, on his death bed wished? Perhaps an eye opener for many who run after every penny they see. He wished that when he died, his both hands should be taken out of the shroud so that everybody could see that the once a great man, was leaving with empty handed. This is the truth, if we have the stomach to accept it.

Today, many parts of Pakistan are under many feet of flood water. While ordinary people have donated all they could, one wonders what happened to the filth rich people. Even is any of them has donated, that does not matches the wealth one has. Perhaps they are amassing the money to be buried in a gold plated coffin and a grave with gold plates and diamonds studded in it. And even if it is done, would it make any difference? Would he be blessed because he had an air-conditioned grave and gold around? Ever pondered over it?

So the time is now to make a choice. Help others from the money that has been God given or wait to be buried in a golden coffin.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Protecting our strategic assets

Recently there has been much uproar on the spot fixing allegations against some of our players. One of them includes an 18 years emerging bowler Muhammad Aamir. Within a short span of time, the bowler has made headlines in the cricket world for completing his bagful of 50 wickets. A great feat indeed.

And here come in forces that distract such youngsters, still in their infancy, through their heinous designs to sideline them by involving them in such ugly blackmailing as that of spot fixing. And an innocent Youngman would soon be coerced and lured in to bowl a no-ball for some good cash. And this is probably something that has happened. And the desired results have been achieved by the forces of the underworld that have succeeded in breaking an emerging bowler and stamping his future, at least for now. The decision by the inquiry commission would decide the fate of this young man – may be a life ban.

Now that the uproar on their conduct unbecoming has subsided considerably, there is a time to ponder over what has happened, what could happen next and was there any chance in the first place to have averted this disaster?

Well to start with, while I do not subscribe to the act of this young man, and fell rather embarrassed as his act has embarrassed the nation the world over, I pondered over the issue when the anger subsided (remember I earlier wrote “When enough is not enough” awhile ago, soon after the incident). Everyone knows in PCB and all those who matter that blackmailers and bookmakers are after these youngsters to spoil them. So did anyone protect them? Was anyone over watching these players and keeping a track over their activities? Did anyone see who comes to meet them, or where do they go late at night? Did anyone charge them for disobeying the rules of not staying out late at night?

Probably no one.

The tam is being managed by two oldest persons living in Pakistan; I mean Mr. Yawar and Mr. Shafqat Rana. Couldn’t we find some hawkish and rather younger people who could enforce discipline? The PCB top man is also a man of fragile health, though of a heavy stature otherwise. He is often found asleep when his duties require of him extra vigilant and active. Unlike many previous PCB top men, he has accompanied the team to almost every country, probably making the best of his remaining days. But is he delivering?

So when this is the state of the managers and the chairman, it has been very easy for the outsiders to have a rollicking time and finding easy ingress into the enclosed circles of the team and praying their victims with much ease.

I think we need to protect our strategic assets of our sports so that they do not succumb to blackmailing, coercion and underhand deals. We need to employ security men around these so that no one takes them for granted and spoil their careers. And also as a result the nation, the team and the sports is not let down.

It is just a loud thinking but I hope someone seriously considers it and takes measures to avert any such happenings in future.

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

What did you learn today?

It was long time back that I came across a one page article in the Readers’ Digest that left a profound effect on me to learn and be a better man every day. The article was about a man who had six children and an illiterate wife. As the children were growing, the man thought their learning may depress their illiterate mother for not knowing anything. So he came up with a novel idea. One day after the dinner, he announced that from the next day onwards, after dinner, every child would tell the others a new thing that he/she learnt that day. So from then on, every night, each child would come up with a new word, a new technology news or anything and shared with the rest. So in the process, not only all the children learnt a new thing, the man himself learnt something new (if he hadn’t known it before) and also did his illiterate wife. So without making it a formal education for his wife, a forum was made where she also started learning and became wiser. It was long after the death of her husband, did the children confide with their mother the real philosophy behind their daily exercise of learning a new thing.

I learnt two things from that article, One: Do not keep a new thing that I learn to be kept to myself - it should be shared so that others know it. Two: If you think someone is ignorant or illiterate, make a novel effort to make him/her learn or understand what he/she doesn’t know. If we keep doing this, not only our own learning will improve (for trying to find out new things) but also our sharing of knowledge gets an audience and in the end helping in spreading the knowledge to those who cannot read or have no access to books or libraries.

Try it – it will be both fun and soul satisfying.